So, why choose me as your guide?

I believe we are all a gift, a diamond

The challenge most humans face is like a diamond, our gifts are translucent, so from the inside looking out, they’re often invisible to the eye.

They’re hidden behind the noise that comes with the years of stories we’ve told ourselves, ‘there’s something wrong’, ‘I don’t know what I want anyway’, ‘I don’t have enough time’, and ‘I’m not enough, I don’t deserve it’.

One of my gifts is being able to see people for who they truly are and mirror them back at themselves. To inspire them in themselves and keep them moving toward who they’re meant to be.

Being an observationalist is one of my superpowers, which I got from being a super shy child, who didn’t speak much, who just listened, and observed. Later in life, I found my gift, my purpose, that I light up, when you do.

I combine this with an innovators mindset, design thinking toolkit, mind-mapping, and the best ways of thinking from personal development, experiential, and embodied learning. Inspired and developed from: Landmark Education, Tony Robbins, Simon Sinek, Brenè Brown, Psycho Spiritual work, Human Design, Togetherness, Rebel Business, Oracle Cards, and quantum physics. I’ve done the work and learnt the language, so that I can teach it to you.

My Philosophy on becoming who we are

‘Authenticity’, ‘showing up as your true self’ and ‘finding your purpose’ is everywhere right now.

But what REALLY is it?

I’m a ‘guide’ rather than a coach.

My role is to listen to you, for you, and to help you discover what YOU need to move forw, and to guide you towards the next step. I gently keep you accountable to your self and your journey. I do this by keeping you inspired in who you are and what's important to your life. I will bring my tools, my intuition, and my heart, and it’s up to you to do the work. There’s no quick fix on the journey. There’s no true map. That’s part of your journey, to learn how to draw and navigate your own map because only you know how to be the best you. It’s just sometimes we need help getting there.

Fix me!

Sorry, I did just say, there’s are no quick fixes here.

No ‘do this one thing’, read this book, do this course. They are all part of the puzzle, and the real work happens in between all those little epiphanies and breakthroughs, embedding them into life.

The way I work as a guide is NOT the classic hard shove method. I don’t push you to set big hard goals and hold you to account to fight your way there. Well a little bit, but it’s more subtle; it’s about releasing what’s holding you back. About figuring out what’s weighing you down. To give you space to unravel and reflect. Space to explore what’s calling you into action, to entertain the purpose that quiet voice of longing has always been speaking of. To find what inspires you into action every day.

And when you fall off the path, to dust you off and help you pick yourself up and play the game again.

This means investing in the long game, to learn to trust, to take the next step, no matter where it leads.

Life Learner

I am not a guru. Just saying.

In fact, I don’t have it all sorted out yet 😏. I’ve done a lot of ‘the work’ and have learnt many of life’s lessons along the way. I use my own stories in my guiding to help you to see you more clearly. I don’t believe in maintaining the 3rd wall divide between teacher and student.

I see myself as a learner-teacher. I’m in this game of life with you, it’s just I’ve completed a few more levels and picked up some special key move combos and know a few secret passages and I’ll show you. We’re all students here and I’m still sorting my own sh*t out. I bring my whole self to this work, so that others can learn from me. I don’t believe you can teach authenticity and vulnerability without being authentic and vulnerable. Simple.

Spoiler alert, if you ask any good coach, counsellor or therapist they’ll tell you that the student that shows up is the one they need to learn their next lesson from. So thank you in advance.

Signposting

I don’t have all the answers you need.

You do.

I have spent the last 5 years coaching people in life, business, and teams. I am not a trained therapist and we will only go into your life, guided by what you’re open to, and willing to share.

Part of my role in this is to know my limits. If ever needed, I will guide you to other sources, courses, and teachers that I believe will best serve you and your needs.

Enjoy the Journey

Now I know this has become a meme! And there's a reason.

You see all this ‘doing the work’ stuff can all seem really rather bloody heavy and serious. We’re missing a trick if we don’t enjoy the journey to wherever it is we're going, because that’s actually all that counts.

So let’s have have some fun along the way.

Big Love, K ❤️